We absolutely don’t need or expect gifts. We’ve been together for ages and won’t really need help starting out the way newlyweds often do! Participate however you can and send good vibes our way and we’ll be ecstatic.

However, we’ve been told quite forcefully that we need to provide some way for people to give gifts, so if you really feel like you must, here you go.

Give Stuff

Check out our gift registry if you want to give us physical objects.

Give Cash

Contribute to our home renovation and minihoneymoon funds.

Give Back

Make a donation on our behalf to one of our favorite nonprofits.

• The Mashpee Wampanoag Tribe, on whose land we live.
• GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders, which is working for LGBTQ+ rights in New England and nationally.
• The Center for Disability Rights, which is fighting for a type of marriage equality we haven’t yet achieved in the US: the ability for disabled people to get married without losing lifesaving benefits.
• Medfield Animal Shelter, where we adopted our two lovely kitties. Speaking of which, here is a cat photo to thank you for looking at our gift page: